Are first impressions trustworth1

Are first impressions trustworthy?
First impressions are very important because they weigh a lot in
most people`s judgments. Sometimes if a person shows bad first
impression, he or she may fail to get a date, a job or a university
admission. I will not, though, judge a person`s character so quickly
for several reasons.
First reason is that people`s behaviors and appearance change. When
you see a person in
different situation, you will get a different impression of him or her.
For example, you may see your serious boss drinking and singing in
a bar. If you first met your boss in that bar, you would have thought
that he was not a boss that can handle a large company. And if you
met him or her at the office the other day, you would have thought
you just met a different person.
Another reason is that though some people can adjust their roles and
appearance in different situation smoothly, others cannot. Some
people are shy so they become nervous when you first meet them,
and then they may look like they are arrogant. When I first met my
friend Judy, I thought she is inhospitable. She did not smile and just
said several words when we were talking. But when I knew her
longer, I knew that she was really a person who liked to help the
others. And she was just shy and did not know how to talk with a
stranger.
Furthermore, since many people believe in the first impression,
some people will use it for cheating. There are some cases reported
by newspapers that some defrauders act and appear like decent
people to defraud other people of money. Another example is that
there is some training for interview. If a person pay to have
interview training, he may get a higher interview score but, in fact,
that person is no different.
However, First impression is very important for us since many

people judge people this way. So you have to pay attention to your
first impression to others especially in some important situation.


But if it is we to judge other people, I believe that to judge others
gradually is a right way.