Communication for Relationship
Building: It’s Not All Talk
McGraw-Hill/Irwin
Copyright © 2007 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All
Chapter
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Chapter
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Main Topics
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The Tree of Business Life: Communication
Communication: It Takes Two
Nonverbal Communication: Watch for It
Barriers to Communication
Master Persuasive Communication to Maintain
Control
Chapter
4
The Tree of Business Life: Communication
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Guided by The Golden
Rule,
Rule effectively
communicate using:
Words
Body language
Visual Aids
Listening
Unselfishness to help a person make
the correct buying decision
Communication: It Takes Two
In a sales context, communication is the act
of transmitting verbal and nonverbal
information and understanding between the
seller and buyer.
Exhibit 4-1: What Did You Say? What Did I
Hear?
BARRIER
Listener
BARRIER
Speaker
Psychological barrier or filter
Psychological barrier or filter
Why People Buy–The Black Box Approach*
Internalization process is referred to as a
black box.
We cannot see into the buyer’s mind
Stimulus-response model
Sales Presentation
Buyer’s Hidden
Mental Process
Sale/No Sale
Stimulus
Black box
Response
Exhibit 3-1: Stimulus-response model of buyer behavior
The Communication Process
Basic Model
The Communication Process
Basic Model
The Communication Process
Basic Model
1.1.
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The Communication Process
Basic Model
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The Communication Process
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2.2.
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The Communication Process
Basic Model
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The Communication Process
Basic Model
1.1.
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2.2.
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encodes
encodes
idea
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message
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3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
The Communication Process
Basic Model
1.1.
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Sender
has
hasidea
idea
2.2.
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Sender
encodes
encodes
idea
ideain
in
message
message
3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
The Communication Process
Basic Model
1.1.
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Sender
has
hasidea
idea
2.2.
Sender
Sender
encodes
encodes
idea
ideain
in
message
message
3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
4.4.
Receiver
Receiver
decodes
decodes
message
message
The Communication Process
Basic Model
1.1.
Sender
Sender
has
hasidea
idea
2.2.
Sender
Sender
encodes
encodes
idea
ideain
in
message
message
3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
4.4.
Receiver
Receiver
decodes
decodes
message
message
The Communication Process
Basic Model
5.5.
Feedback
Feedbacktravels
travels
to
sender
to sender
1.1.
Sender
Sender
has
hasidea
idea
2.2.
Sender
Sender
encodes
encodes
idea
ideain
in
message
message
3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
4.4.
Receiver
Receiver
decodes
decodes
message
message
The Communication Process
Basic Model
5.5.
Feedback
Feedbacktravels
travels
to
sender
to sender
1.1.
Sender
Sender
has
hasidea
idea
2.2.
Sender
Sender
encodes
encodes
idea
ideain
in
message
message
3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
4.4.
Receiver
Receiver
decodes
decodes
message
message
The Communication Process
Basic Model
5.5.
Feedback
Feedbacktravels
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to
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to sender
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Sender
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Sender
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idea
ideain
in
message
message
3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
4.4.
Receiver
Receiver
decodes
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message
message
The Communication Process
Basic Model
5.5.
Feedback
Feedbacktravels
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to
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to sender
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Sender
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idea
ideain
in
message
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3.3.
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Message
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channel
channel
6.6.
Possible
Possibleadditional
additional
feedback
to
feedback toreceiver
receiver
4.4.
Receiver
Receiver
decodes
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message
message
The Communication Process
Basic Model
5.5.
Feedback
Feedbacktravels
travels
to
sender
to sender
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Sender
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hasidea
idea
2.2.
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Sender
encodes
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idea
ideain
in
message
message
3.3.
Message
Message
travels
travels
over
over
channel
channel
6.6.
Possible
Possibleadditional
additional
feedback
to
feedback toreceiver
receiver
4.4.
Receiver
Receiver
decodes
decodes
message
message
Salesperson-Buyer Communication
Process Requires Feedback
Major communication elements:
Source
Encoding process
Message
Medium
Decoding process
Receiver
Feedback
Noise
Exhibit 4-2: The Basic Salesperson-Buyer
Communication Model Has Eight Elements
Nonverbal Communication: Watch For It
Concept of space:
Territorial space
Intimate space – 2 feet
Personal space – 2 to 4 feet
Social space – 4 to 6 feet
Public space – 12+ feet
Space threats – too close – “territorial imperative”
Space invasion – OK to be close