KISS, BOW,
OR
SHAKE
HANDS:
ASIA
How to Do Business in
12 Asian Countries
• CULTURAL OVERVIEWS
• TIPS FOR DOING BUSINESS • KNOW BEFORE YOU GO
• NEGOTIATING STRATEGIES
• PROTOCOL
TERRI MORRISON AND WAYNE A. CONAWAY
ASIA
Terri Morrison, author of Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands, 2nd Edition, resides in Newtown Square, PA and
is president of Getting Through Customs, a highly successful Internet product and training rm for
global business travelers. Her clients include American Airlines, AEP, Carnival Cruise Lines, Cypress
Semiconductor, Deloitte & Touche, Dun & Bradstreet, Hewlett-Packard, and Lucent Technologies. She
conducts seminars in intercultural communications, has written for many publications, has appeared
on numerous TV shows, and has been pro led and quoted in national newspapers and magazines
from the Wall Street Journal to Fortune.
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Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands: Asia reveals the subtleties of interaction, negotiation
strategies, and professional skills you need to keep poised for success in
your business travels. This comprehensive guide to Asia contains up-to-date
information to lead you through social situations, business meetings, and
understanding local culture.
Americans must now consider how economies are continuously shifting all
over Asia, and how Asian countries interact with the West and each other. Learn
about business practices, cognitive styles, and social customs. Give the right gift;
make the right gesture.
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the Philippines, Singapore, South Korea, Sri Lanka, Taiwan, Thailand, and Vietnam.
Includes:
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MORRISON
and
CONAWAY
KISS, BOW,
OR
SHAKE HANDS:
KISS, BOW,
OR
SHAKE
HANDS:
ASIA
How to Do Business in
12 Asian Countries
• CULTURAL OVERVIEWS
• TIPS FOR DOING BUSINESS • KNOW BEFORE YOU GO
• NEGOTIATING STRATEGIES
• PROTOCOL
TERRI MORRISON AND WAYNE A. CONAWAY
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Connexion by Boeing
KISS, BOW,
OR
SHAKE
HANDS:
ASIA
How to Do Business in
12 Asian Countries
• CULTURAL OVERVIEWS
• TIPS FOR DOING BUSINESS • KNOW BEFORE YOU GO
• NEGOTIATING STRATEGIES
• PROTOCOL
T M W A. C
A, M
To Nica, Brendan, and Alex
Forever Wise, Forever True, Forever Loved
And to Tony
A chuisle mochroí
—T M
To my Parents
I hope I was a good long-term investment.
—W A. C
And to the late George A. Borden, Ph.D.,
a gied friend.
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Contents
vi Preface
viii Introduction
xi Cultural Orientation
xviii Map of Asia
1 China
16
Hong Kong
21 India
35 Indonesia
56 Japan
74 Malaysia
94 Philippines
110 Singapore
125 South Korea
143 Sri Lanka
155 Taiwan
171 ailand
183 Vietnam
197
Appendix A
Titles and Forms of Address in Asian Countries
202
Appendix B
Why Learn a Foreign Language?
205
Appendix C
Contacts and Resources
208
Appendix D
Avoiding Fashion Faux Pas
210
Appendix E
Holidays
212
Appendix F
Equivalents
216
Appendix G
International Electrical Adaptors
218 Index
221 About the Authors
vi
Preface
I since the rst edition of Kiss, Bow, or Shake
Hands was originally published, Asia has changed in remarkable
ways. Asian economies grew, collapsed, and recovered. e region
coped with epidemics, earthquakes, and tsunamis. Indonesia went
from one-party rule to democracy. Vietnam, once a pariah to the
USA and its allies, transformed itself into a valued trading partner.
India became the outsourcing capital of the world. e Soviet Union
dissolved, leaving its Central Asian republics to nd a new path alone.
Japan slowed, and China boomed. e interesting thing is that over
twelve years—throughout all of the massive political and economic
changes—the cultures, values, and belief systems of major ethnic
groups have remained constant.
For example, the former British Crown Colony of Hong Kong
was returned to China in 1997. Aer decades under British rule, the
businesspeople of Hong Kong had to adapt to the rules of the People’s
Republic of China. Many multinationals will grapple with the written
and unwritten rules of conduct in China as well (like Google, which
was temporarily censored by the Chinese government for several
days in 2006). Successful globalization will require that you, too,
learn how to adapt to the cultural aspects of doing business in Asia.
Just understanding Chinese name order and titles will give you an
advantage over other executives who do no research.
As Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said, “ere is nothing more
terrible than ignorance in action” (Es ist nichts schrecklicher als eine
tätige Unwissenheit).
During my life, I have seen World War, reconstruction, terror-
ism, and tremendous advances in technology. On this increasingly
interconnected planet, businesses need to acknowledge that people
are not alike all over the world—the more you respect local attitudes
toward families, work, and religion, the more successful you will be
in those locales. Priorities in Mumbai are not necessarily equivalent
to those in Milwaukee.
It is a pleasure to introduce you to this important book. Review
it before you embark on your international trips. Gain the informa-
tion you need on business practices, cognitive styles, negotiation
techniques, and social customs. Give the right gi; make the right
gesture. Read Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands: Asia.
—H H.B. K,
the former Director of the Wharton Export Network
“e reputation of a thousand years
may be determined by the conduct of one hour.”
—J
Preface vii