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Kato Kumiko
Giup con phat trien ngon ngil': Me Nhi.lt day con bang danh

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2015. - 2ootr.; l 9cm. - (Tu sach Ngvoi m� tot)
ISBN 9786046954385
1. Day con 2. Ng6n ngil' 3. Nhat Ban
649. 680952 - dc23
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KATO

KUMIKO

DANG THANH HUYEN dich

NHA XUAT BAN VAN HQC


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Hay tro thanh cha m� ma tre co the tin tuong .

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CHUONGl
"DAY TRE BANG DANH TU VON CO" LA GI?

1.1 - "Dc;iy tre bang danh tu v6n co" cv the la
the nao?

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1.2 - "Dc;iy tre bang danh tu v6n c6" khac v6i
"d9c cho tre nghe" 6 ch6 nao?
1.3 - Nen bat dau tu may tuoi?
1.4 - Nen bat dau tu vi$c nao?

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1.5 - Lam the nao khi tre n6i nham?................. 35

1.6 - Hay dc;iy tre ten day du cua SlJ v,;i t ........ 38
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1.7 - Vi giac, thfnh giac, thi giac, xuc giac,

khl.ru giac... Hay dung thvc te de mai giOa
nang luc phan doan cho tre

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CHVONG 2
GIOI THISU NHUNG TRAI NGHISM THVC TE
2.8 - HQc tu g6i xi dau dfnh kem hc)p sushi..44
2.9 - Tc;ii sao quang cao Tabasco
lc;ii long bai hat cua Antonio lnoki? ..
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Lu6n mo radio khi di chuyen

bang oto

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53

2.11 - Tron 2 tuoi: chu dau tien Hiro danh ra
tren may tfnh la "TOMICA".. . . . .. . . .. . 60
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2.12 - Thfch dQc sach, hat hay, biet giup do
nguoi khac, ham hQc hoi

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2.13 Hay thu suy lut;in tht;it nhieu thong tin
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chi tu tva de mc)t bai bao.....................................66
2.14 Neu ban nghT con mlnh xuat chung,
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hay kiem tra xem sao!. . .. . .
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2.15 HQc tu to hvong dan su dl,mg bo do ngu
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trong quan trQ Kanpo

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2.16 Nhung chuy$n kh6ng dau kh6ng cu6i

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mang phong each TOEIC phan 2.....................73
CHVONG 3
PHVONG PHAP Cl) THE
BIEN "HOC" THANH "CHOI"
3.17

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The mau sac de hQC tu kh6 nho

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3.18 - Trai nghia la do, dong nghia la xanh 88
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3.19 - Phan bi$t trai - phai: tay trai la
Alfa Romeo, tay phai la Volvo,
chan trai la Citroen, chan phai la M ercedes.90
3.20 - Bai hat ABC duQc chuyen thanh ten
cac loai xe oto!

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92

3.21 G6i gon chu de khi choi Shiritori:
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ten qu6c gia, ten dia phuong, ten m6n an...94
3.22 - Ra ph6 tlm kiem cac tu vl,.l'ng da hoc 96
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3.23

Dung danh tu v6n c6 de dien d.;it

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nhCmg vi$c can phai lam....................................... 99
3.24 - Trong nha tam cung c6 the choi
tro choi danh tu v6n co ..
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3.25 - Hiro 8 thang tuoi: so hvu mo h1nh 6 to
dau tien - Mercedes Benz 300SL ...................104

CHUONG 4
NHVNG 81EU

TUY�T 801

KHONG 8UOC NOi VOi TRE
4.26 - Nu6i d9y con th<;it vat va

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4.27 - "Vi$c nay la qua sue v6i con nhi!"

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4.28 - "Cach d9y cua thay kh6 hieu nhi!" . 114
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4.29 - "Khong duQc de thua
b.;in A dau nhe!"

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4.30

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"Con toi kem lam.

kha nang the thao

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4.31 "Cai d6 rut cu¢c chang c6 fch gl. chi phf
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tien thoi!"
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"Nay, con dang cang thang day a?" 121
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Chuong 5
DAY CON BANG DANH TV VON c6NHO'NG cAu CHUY�N TVTHVC TE
5.33

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C6 the mua kim tu dien giam gia cho

hQC sinh 0 truong mau giao?

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5.34

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Trai nghi$m 6 cu¢c thi

"Spelling Bee"

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5.35 - 18 thang, nhln den do Hiro l,;ii n6i:
"Lau qua. lau qua!"
5.36

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Can thiet phai d,;iy cho con ca nhCmg

danh tu ca ban trong cu¢c song

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"Cam on. banh kem Arinco

rat ngon!" .

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5.38 - Th<;it may vi con thfch 6 to!

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139

5.39 - Quen mat v i trf 6 t6 6 bai do xe
Las Vegas menh mong!........................................ 141


5.40 - Hiro 3 tuoi 7 thang: tLJ tlm den cua
len may bay trong chuyen du lich nuoc My
dau tien .
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5.41 - T<;in huong thu vui vua ngam canh v<;it
vua d6i chieu voi ban do cam tay

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5.42 Hiro 15 thang: lay ve d<;iu xe
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5.43 - Hiro 18 thang:
biet tra tien bang the

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CHUONG 6

MO RONG THE GIOI CUA TRE
BANG NGON NGO'
6.44 - Nho nhCrng ky thi khac ma tieng Anh
cua con dvQc nang cao hon

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6.45 - The flash card kfch thfch trf nao
theo phong each rieng.........................................163
6.46 - Ghi nho chfnh xac cac bien bao giao
thong: "chu y gi6 m9nh", "duong tron de
trvQt nga", "cam dung xe"

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6.47 - Ghe an toan danh cho tre giup
ma r¢ng ph9m vi ho9t ci¢ng cua con

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6.48 - IKEA - kho bau danh tu moi me,
ky 19

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6.49 - Nghe va phan bi$t dLJQC am cua
tieng Anh nho song sieu am!?

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6.50 - Hiro 4 tuoi rvoi:
Ian dau xem phim a rc;:ip

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6.51 - NhCrng tl.r kh6 va trl.ru tuQng
(phan biet chung t¢c, phien di$n,
bon rut s(rc lao d¢ng ) ...... .................................180
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6.52 - NHK cOng c6 luc nham
6.53

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Dc;:iy con khai ni$m ve so tru6c khi

bat con thu6c long bang cuu chuong..........187
6.54 - Cang c6 chung nhieu danh tl.r von c6,
h¢i thoc;:ii giua cha mE;: v6i con cang thu vj 189
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6.55 - Thu chuyen sang each n6i chuy$n
thong thuong

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191

THAY LOI KET
Cha mE;: va con hay cung nam chc;lt tay nhau

bu6c ve phla truoc . .
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LOI NOi BAU
H AY T R O THANH CHA Me
MA T R E co THE T I N T VONG

Dung de tre phai lo lang vi n h Cmg c a u n6i n h u
" c o n l a m t h e l a khong g i 6 n g cac b 9 n khac".

Cu(>c song cua gia dinh toi hoan toan khong lien
quan gi den cac lop dao t<:i.o cho tre thong minh, hay
giao trinh dao t<:i.o nhan tai. Ke ca khi Hiro - con trai
toi - thi vao cap 1, be cling hoan toan khong di hoc

them 6 bat cu lop luy�n thi nao. Chi duy nhat m(>t
Ian, khi nghi den vi�c cho con thi vao mau giao, luc
Hiro 3 tu6i, la toi c6 cho be tham gia gio hoc thu cua
m(>t trung tam dao t<:i.o tre tho n6i tieng 6 gan nha.
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Ngoai Hiro ra, nhung dua tre khac c6 m<)t horn do
deu da hQC 6 day dUQC 1-2 nam roi.
Hom d6, Hiro tham gia ky thi thu cung voi nhung
dua tre khac nua. Tuy nhien, trong khi nhung dua
tre khac cu dung len ngoi xu6ng, nhap nha nhap
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GI U P CON P H AT T RIE'N NGON NGV

nh6m nhin ng6 sang cho bc,in, Hiro van ngoi im l<:ing
cham chu Iang nghe loi co giao n6i. Con thvc hi�n
dung theo chi tht co dua ra, neu ra du9c quan diem
cua minh. Con cung giai thich duQc m(>t each hQp ly
ly do cua nhung dap an ma minh dua ra.
Phong ben cc,inh vang ra tieng mot ba m� c6 con
theo hoc 6 trung tam, dang trao d6i voi co giao ve
"con duong phat trien" sau nay cua con minh: "Toi
muon con hoc tieu hoc 6 truong nay, trung hoc 6
truong no, ph6 thong a truong kia, tuong lai nhat
dtnh phai d"1u truong d?i hoc nay...". Khong khi
nghiem trang bao trum ca CUQC n6i chuy�n. Hau
nhu deu la chuy�n cua tuong lai muoi may nam
sau nay.

Du bt an tuQng boi khung canh d6, nhung khi
quan sat gio hoc thu cua Hiro, toi da kha nga ngang.
A, h6a ra day goi la trung tam dao t?o tre tho day!
Chang phai toan nhung dieu dang ra cha m� phai
tv d?y con minh sao? D6 dau c6 phai la nhung thu
dang de b6 nhieu tien ra m6i c6?
Gia hoc thu ket thuc, chuyen sang giai do?n tu
van tru6c khi nh"1p hoc. Vt hi�u truong trong quy
phai "chan Hiro 3 tu6i: "Truong h<;>p cua Hiro, c6 ve chau van
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K ATO

K U M I KO

con thieu tinh tich cue. Nhung truong hQp nhu
chau day, c6 le truong mau giao B se thich hQp hon
truong mau giao A day. Hinh nhu chau cling da
tung tham gia vao lop hoc tieng Anh phai khong
<;i? Nhung thµc ra, thi vao mau giao va tieng Anh
cling khong lien quan lam. Ve m<;lt ngon ngu, toi
thay chau da co nh�n thuc day du. Co dieu... ".
Thieu tinh tich cue a? (Cuoi). Thi dung la tu
dau den cu6i, Hiro deu ngoi nghe mot each kha yen
l<;lng. Be da nghiem tuc neu len y kien cua minh va
ly do cua dap an dua ra, nhung hinh nhu phia giao
vien thi l<;ii c6 an tuQng la "Hiro chi Ian luot cac be
khac chu van chua tich C\IC khang dtnh ban than".

(Hoa ra ho dung each nay de lam phl.l huynh phai
lo lang day).
Vao mua dong cl'.ia nam hoc cu6i cung t<;li truong
mau giao, khi nhan vien tiep tht den nha gi6i thi�u
tai li�u giao dl).c phat trien nao phai cling da dung
"kieu n6i hu doa" gi6ng y nhu tren. Anh ta dua cho
Hiro nhung de bai C\IC kh6, va khi Hiro phai mat
nhieu thoi gian de giai n6 thi anh ta n6i ngay, kieu:
"Neu la cac be c6 hoc giao trinh cua chung toi, thi
ke ca la m6i l6p 1 truong cong l�p cling giai ngay
dUQC day".
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G I U P CON P H AT T RI EN NGON NGCf

"Neu khong boi duong ngay tli bay gio, qua 6
tu6i bo nao be se khong the tiep thu them duQc nua
dau!".
"Chung toi c6 ca giao tr1nh tieng Anh, c6 ca
nhung be chi hoc m6i giao trinh d6 ma m6i l6p 1 da
thi d?u ky thi tieng Anh dlJ bt cap 2 roi day".
(Cha, n6i chang khac gi thay co 6 trung tam giao
dvc tre tho ca. each lam nay khien cho khach hang
thay lo lang ma phai quyet dtnh cho con theo hoc
ay ma).
Toi chQt nh6 ra, vao thoi diem hanh vi cung bai
trong ton giao n6i len thanh mot van de xa h(>i, khi
binh lu?n ve can cu de nh?n ra tin nguong dung va
tin nguong khong tot, m(>t chuyen gia ve ton giao

da n6i rang: "Tru6c het, tin nguong nao ma lam
cho nguoi ta bat an de khien ho phai gia nh?p, chac
chan la tin nguong khong tot".
Tat nhien, khong phai tat ca cac trung tam giao
dvc s6m, hay cac tai li�u ren luy�n danh cho "nao
phai" deu xau. Nhung toi nghi, tru6c khi tin vao
nhung thu d6, van con c6 rat nhieu vi�c cha m�
c6 the tlJ lam du9c cho con, c6 nhieu vi�c cha m�
nen tlJ d;;iy cho con, c6 nhung van de cha m� can tlJ
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K ATO

K U M I KO

quyet dtnh cho con, c6 nhung thu ma neu hoc cung
cha m� thi hi�u qua se con cao hon gap nhieu fan.
Toi nghi v<:ly day.

Neu yeu thuong con thµc sl), thi trudc khi ph6
m(lc con cha "nhilng-nguoi-ngoai-c6-ve-t6t-bµng ",
"nhilng-nguoi-ngoai-c6-ve-dang-tin-c¢y", chang
phai truoc tien cha m� nen c6 gang het sue de lam
cha con nhilng dieu ma minh c6 the lam hay sao?
Neu cha m� yeu thuong con tU day long, tinh
yeu d6 chac chan se truyen du9c tai con.

Tro t h a n h c h a m� m a tre co the t i n tuong

Nhieu cu6n sach nuoi d?y tre viet ran�: "Hay
khen con th(:lt nhieu, hay tin tuong con, hay d?ycon
thanh mot dua tre tai gi6i tran day nang lu9ng".
Th<:lm chi con c6 ca sach viet la "D?y con bang each
khen con lien tl,lc" nua co ma. Khen ng9i con dung
la quan trong th(:lt. The nhung, bat ke con lam gi
cung khen lay khen de thi ket qua se the nao?
Toi chi khen Hiro khi ma toi thµc su thay "dung
la con gi6i th(:lt". Toi cam thay neu con lam bat cu
dieu gi cung khen, thi loi khen d6 se thieu di su
thanh th(:lt, va con se dan khong biet du9c "vi�c tot
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G I U P CON P H AT T RI E'N NGON NGV

thtJc s\f dang dm;ic khen ng9i" la gi nua. Va nhu the
m6i quan h� giua m� va con se c6 r:;in nut.
Toi da tung h6i Hiro: "Nay con, con c6 thich
vi�c con lam bat cu cai gi m� cung khen khong?"
(cuoi) va Hiro tra loi: "Con khong thich. Nhu the
gi6ng nhu con dang bi bien thanh thang ng6c v�y''.
Tat nhien, de hinh thanh du9c m6i quan h� tin
tuong lan nhau thi vi�c "cha m� tin tuong con cai"
la dieu quan trong. Nhung t6i nghi, dieu quan tr9ng
la t1,r ban than cha m� "phai la nguoi ma con cai c6
the tin tuang dugc trliac da". Do khong phai la vi�c

cha m� cung ntJng, dap ung moi doi h6i cua con,
cham soc, lo lang cho con mot each thai qua ho?c la

cha m� hi sinh di so thich rieng cua minh de danh
tat ca cho con.
Cv the, dieu ki�n de tro thanh nguoi cha nguoi
m� ma con c6 the tin tuong nhu sau:
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Khi con con nh6, khong lam con thay bat an.

•

Khong lam con gi�t minh, du mvc dich chi la

treu dua.
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Khong n6i d6i con.

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Khong that hua voi con.
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K ATO

K U M I KO

• Du la tre con thi con cung la mot ca the rieng,
cha mt; can phai t6n tr9ng con. Hay ton tr9ng the
gi6i con yeu thich, ton tr9ng nhung thu ma con c6

hung thu (du do la thu b(:ln hoan toan khong quan
tam di nua). Va hay c6 Vil het minh cho nhung dam
me do cua con (du dam me do la thu hoan toan
khong lien quan den h9c hanh).
• Va cu6i cling, hay de y het muc c6 the, de giu
cho con luon duqc an toan.
Toi cho rang, it nhat, chi khi cha mt; th\lC hi�n
duqc nhung dieu tren, luc d6 con cai m6i c6 the bat
dau dc;tt niem tin cua minh vao cha mt; duqc. Va hon
the, cha mt; hay n6i chuy�n v6i con bang cam xuc
th�t cua minh, khong nen c6 che giau cam xuc th�t
cua minh v6i tre.
La cha mt; thi dau can phai c6 "danh bong" ban
than tru6c m?t con dung khong? Vi cha mt; va con
cai la m6i quan h� c1mg nhau tru6ng thanh. Cung
kh6c, Ctmg gi�n, cling bay t6 cam XllC CUa minh
chang tot hay sao? Neu co sai lam, chi can loi xin
loi chan thanh la h6a giai du9c ma.
C6 nhung nguoi mt; nhu vi Bo Tat, tru6c m?t
con, du dau kh6 the nao di nua van c6 guqng cuoi.
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G ! U P CON P H AT T R!EN NGON NGV

Nhung voi toi, dieu do la khong the. Va t6i tin Hiro
cua toi cung se l<;lp tuc nh<;ln ra nv cuoi guc;mg gc;i.o
cua m� la gia VO ngay.

Toi xin chuyen chu de khac. Toi chua lan nao

duoc goi la "m�" ca. Tu hie hon 1 tu6i cho tai gio 11
tu6i, Hiro luon goi t6i la "Kaka". Khi Hiro con be,
nhung dua tre khac deu goi m� la "m� oi, m� oi", chi
rieng Hiro tU dau van gQi t6i la "Kaka" (cuoi).
Nhurtg dua tre duoc hoc tieng Anh tU nh6, hau
het deu goi m� la "mami", nhung tat nhien toi cung
chua khi nao duoc goi la "mami" ca. C6 ve nhu each
gQi "mami" hay la "mama" cung deu khong hop voi
toi cho lam, nen goi "Kaka" duong nhu la hop nhat.
Hon the, goi la "Kaka" thvc ra cung c6 diem ti�n
loi. 6 nhung cho c6 nhieu tre con, lan giua nhung
dua tre gQi m� la "mama"' chi can nghe tieng gQi
"Kaka" la t6i c6 the nh<;ln ra ngay chinh la Hiro roi.
Khi di nude ngoai cung the. 6 nuoc ngoai thi kieu
goi m� la "Kaka" lc;i.i cang doc quyen, cho nen hai m�
con du c6 16 lc;i.c nhau thi van tim duoc nhau ngay,
nho the ma quang thoi gian Hiro bt lo lang, bat an
duoc giam di rat nhieu.
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Con ve can nguyen t6i goi be la "Hiro" thi.. .
Duong nhien tru6c tien, dieu nay xuat phat tlr ten
thc'.lt cua Hiro la Hiro. Them nua la, khi trao d6i v6i
bc;i.n be ve chuy�n cua Hiro, khong hieu sao t6i deu
c6 chut hoi nguc;mg ngung v6i each goi "con trai t6i

thi. ..". Do do, nhung luc ay, luc nao t6i cung dc;i.i
khai dung each n6i su dvng luon danh tu von co la
"Hiro thi..." (cuoi).
Ngoai ra, nhu trong nhung cau chuy�n giua hai
m� con ma toi dua ra lam vi dv trong cuon sach nay,
c6 may Ian t6i da goi Hiro la "dang ay"... Nghe c6
le buon cuai lam phai khong? (Cuoi). Nghe co qua
hoang da khong vc'.ly? Tu khi Hiro len cap 1, each goi
"dang ay" hinh nhu cang du9c dung nhieu hon.
A, toi nham, tu luc con con be hon nua toi da
dung each xung ho do roi. Bay gio t6i m6i nh6 ra,
hinh nhu la tU khi Hiro 3 tu6i. C6 mot vi�c gi d6 kha
thu vt, va luc be n6i v6i t6i: "Hiro cung muon lam",
t6i da h6i lc;i.i Hiro la: "Dang ay cling muon lam thu
a?" (Cuai). C6 le luc bay gid, doi v6i Hiro, "dang ay"
gi6ng nhu m(>t ten goi khac nua cua minh v<'.ly.

Tc;i.m dung cau chuy�n ngoai le 6 day, chung
ta quay lc;i.i v6i chu de chinh: "Dc;i.y con bang danh
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tU von c6". "Dq.y con bang danh tu von c6" la m(>t
each thuc.
C6 ly do khien tu dau den gio toi n6i nhieu ve
nhung vi�c khong phai "danh tu von c6". D6 la vi.ec,
hay tro thanh nhung cha m� ma con c6 the gU:i gam
niem tin. D6 la vi.ec, hay xay dl,Ing moi quan he tin

c?y voi con. Bai vi., toi tin tuong chac chan, dieu nay

lien quan m?t thiet den vi�c nuoi duong con thanh
m(>t dua tre thong minh, m(>t dua tre bi.et nghi cho
nguoi khac, hon bat cu truong hoc tot nao, hon bat
cu tai li�u giao dvc tuy�t voi nao khac.
Phuong phap cv the cua "d:;i.y con bang danh tu
von c6" ma toi se gioi thi�u trong cuon sach nay,
thvc ra chi la m(>t each nuoi d:;i.y con cv the de b:;i.n
vU:a c6 the xay dung moi quan h� tin tuong voi con,
vU:a dong hanh cling con 16n len ma thoi. Va c6 le,
moi cc;i_p cha m� se con c6 nhung phuong phap d:;i.y
do con tot hon, thich hop hon nua.
Tuy v:';ly, chi duy nhat m(>t diem ma toi muon
nhan m?nh do la, tat ca n(>i dung ci.'rn cuon sach nay
deu la nhung cau chuy�n co th:';lt. Vi the, du hay di1
do, n6 cling la m(>t cuon sach "tham khao" danh
cho cac b:';tc cha m� tren con duong dvng xay m6i
quan h� v6i con minh.
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Toi va Hiro t?p trung vao phuong phap "danh
tU v6n c6" de hoc thrn)c nhieu lo?i tu V1Jng, va dung

n6 lam kien thtrc nen de "thlr tri" 0 nhieu linh V\IC
khac nhau, d?t duoc nhung ket qua kha thu vi. Va
chung t6i no hrc de bien nhung kien thuc d6 thanh
nhung tri thuc dung duoc trong thl)'c te, chu khong
chi don thuan la nhung kien thuc sao rong.
Vi the, hi vong quy vi co the ap dvng duoc
phuong phap "danh tU v6n c6" nay trong qua trinh
nuoi d?y con. Va th?t may man cho t6i neu quy vi
c6 the vU:a cuoi vui vU:a xem sach, c6 the coi n6 nhu
nhu la mot trong nhung cu6n sach "tham khao" cua
minh. Toi VO cling h?nh phuc neu c6 the dong g6p
mot phan nh6 cua minh trong qua trinh nuoi duong
nhung dua con thong minh gi6i giang cua quy vi.
Thl)'c ra qua trinh nuoi d?y con cua toi khong
phai la de dang gi. Nhan v?t chinh thu sue voi nhieu
ky thi, de l?i nhung ket qua dang ghi nh.;tn thuc ra
1a Hiro. Nhung Hiro luc do moi 4 tuoi, khong he c6
b?n be cling chi huong, nhung nguoi xung quanh
thi xi xao ban tan. Ngoai nguoi than ru(>t thtt ra,
nhung nguoi ngoai thl)'c sl)' ung ho va dong vien cho
Hiro chi la thay co 6 lop on luy�n Kumon ma thoi.
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Bay gio nhin lc:ii quang duong da qua, toi m6i
thay rang thoi gian d6 d6i v6i Hiro c6 le la m(>t CUQC
chien vo cling don d(>c. Nhung mQi thu xung quanh
cung thay d6i kha nhieu ke tu khi con len cap 1.

Du toi luon n6i ve "nhung thu thach ma hai
m� con se cling nhau thu sue", nhung d6i voi m(>t
hQC sinh cap 1 nhu Hiro, qua that noi quan trQng
nhat, can danh thoi gian nhat van la truong hQC.
Truong tieu hQC qu6c te Gyosei ma Hiro theo hQC
c6 phuong cham ton trQng t6 chat rieng ma moi em
h9c sinh c6, la moi truong khuyen khich "tinh than
thu thach vuot len nam h9c cua minh". Toi nghi
la mot trong nhung truong hiem hoi c6 duoc each
nghi nhu v?y trong h� thong truong tieu hQc cua
Nh?t v6n la "Tat ca mQi nguoi deu phai gi6ng nhau.
Cai dinh troi len thi phai dong xu6ng". 6 day tuy�t
d6i khong c6 chuy�n do.
Thay co luon khuyen khich hQc tro, nhung nguoi
bc:in, nhfrng b?c phv huynh trong m(>t ngoi truong
lay vi�C hQC lam tr9ng tam, luon am ap doi theo va
ling ho cho Hiro. Chi can nhu the, m� con toi da
cam thay an tam, va duQc ho trQ rat nhieu ve tinh
than. Do d6, m(>t each t\l nhien, trong long chung
toi tran ng?p cam giac: "Hay c6 gang, vi ca nhung
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nguoi thay, nguoi b:;m van luon ling ho minh nua".
Thl)'c Sl)', nhung tinh cam d6 VO cling dang quy.
Cu6n sach nay, vi the, ghi chep lc;ii mot each

chan thvc nhung kinh nghi�m thvc te, ca nhung
dieu da lam t6t va nhung dieu van con chua t6t ma
m� con t6i da trai nghi�m. Dong thoi n6 chua dvng
ca nhung ap li Ve SlJ biet On nhung nguoi bc;in da
luon ben cc;inh ling ho chung toi.
Toi cau mong, cu6n sach c6 the g6p phan nh6
be clia minh vao cong cu<)c nuoi duong con tre clia
quy tj.
Thang

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KATOKUMIKO

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CHUONGl

"DAY T R E BANG
DANH T V VON C O" LA GI?

1.1

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"O�y tre b a n g d a n h tu von c6" Cl,l the l a

the nao?

Nguoi mi? hay lam het kha nang c6 the de dung
"danh tiL v6n c6" n6i chuy�n v6i con.
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Dung "danh tU v6n c6" de n6i chuy�n voi con,
v6n tu V1Jng se ma r(mg len nhieu Ian tU mot tU V1Jng
ban dau. Ngoai ra, neu b<:in d<:iy cho con nhung tU
V1Jng lien quan t6i "trai nghi�m thuc te" ho.;ic cac
"ky Uc", thi tU d6 se dUQC tre ghi nh6 mot each song
dong va ro rang. Hung thu v6i tu V\lng cua tre ngay
cang tang len se giup v6n tu tre tich luy ngay cang
tang nhanh theo cap s6 nhan.
Vi

di;: Khi tre bat dau an dUQC ca nu6ng, neu

b<:in chi d<:iy be "day la ca nu6ng" thi hi�u qua so
voi vi�c b<:in n6i ten cv the cua lo<:ii ca nhu ca hoi,
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