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SHould parents make decisions for their older teenage children?
It seems a little bit difficult to choose approval or disapproval
between these two opinions, because they both have their own
positive sides and negative sides. To some extent, it is hard to
distinguish strictly, but this does not mean they are of the same to
me. After weighing two distinctive features, I disagree with the
above statement that adult family members should make important
decisions for their older teenage children, if personal quality is
considered as a criterion to choose things.
There are many reasons that can account for my personal opinion.
The most important one is that an big decision to these older
teenage children may influence their life or behavior heavily in the
future. The decision made by parents is not absolutely fit to their
children or the young people will not satisfy with their parent`s
decision, though parents knew their children very well. If the
children did not like the decision, they will not perform it very well
automatically and, apparently, it will not get a good result. Like an
eighteen-year old teenage children, he or she is going to enter a
college or university.
Which major will be taken is problem to them. A good, fit
decision which is made by children`s considerate thinking leads
them to the way of success.
The second obvious reason is that learning how to make an
important decision is an essential thing to these older children. From
birth to growing, people always learn how to make decision either
small one or big one. This is a necessary ability to everyone. A child
when he or she is going to adult age especially should know how to
distinguish things.
The skill is absolutely useful to them. Parents could foster their
older children this capability through giving them some valuable
suggestions and the result of things will depend on children


themselves.
Furthermore, a people should have responsibility to what he or she
decides. Older
children make decision by themselves and they also should take on


the result. This rule is very important to them, especially for their
future. A responsible person is always popular among his or her
groups.
In conclusion, fostering older children to make decision is an
important job for adults



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