963 bài essays mẫu part 24

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many reasons and examples to support my view.

The main reason for my view is that everybody should make decision by himself. Parents
or adult relatives can advise some useful advices based on their experience, but only
children can make the important decisions for themselves. For example, teenage children
will choose the major when they prepare to enter college or university. Since only the
children themselves know what is their most enjoyed, which career is that they would
like to devote all their time to pursue. So this decision should up to children no their
parents or other adult relatives.

Another reason for my view is that letting children make the important decision by
themselves is very helpful to cultivate their independent, responsible character. If parents
always make the decision for their children, it might lead to children overly depend on
others. Furthermore, children do not need to be responsible for the result of the decisions.
since decisions just were made by parents or others. So they have more reasons to
complain about their awful situation.

Based all these reasons and examples, I believe that teenage children should make the
important decision by themselves not by parents or adult relatives.

Essay 350 Topic 61

First of all, it is not easy to define if people at the age of 15 to 18 are adults or children
because they are physically grown up and intelligent enough to carry out general work
like adults do in a company, while a lot of them are under their parents` control. I believe
that they should be able to make important decisions by themselves, no matter how hard
for them. Needless to say, recognition of age and maturity is not universal sense. There
were some times that 15 to 18 years old were recognized as adults and supposed to think
and act independently. It was usual for women at the age of under 20 to get married in

my grandmother`s generation in Japan. Even the present days, it maybe still a common
thing in some developing countries. Thus, I guess it depends on whether the community
is wealthy enough for 15 to 18 year-old children to be children or not. Women in my
grandmother`s generation needed to get married as soon as possible to have about 10
children in order to get enough labor forces for their family business and have them
taking care of their parents and grandparents. In those days, children must have grown up
with prediction of earlier age they had been supposed to become independent. These
days, women in developed countries do not need to have so many children anymore and
they can go on to higher education, by comparison with early times. It has enabled
mothers to get a job as well as fathers in order to make their family more wealthy and
keep their children beside them longer. As children are not expected to be important labor
forces for their family anymore, it may not really matter if they are mature enough to
make important decisions. Then how do children predict themselves to be independent at
the age of 15 to 18 in such a situation? I strongly believe that this phenomenon has made
today`s adults more immature and immoral. I could not believe that a lot of 20 year-old
Japanese people attended the ceremony for Coming of Age Day with their parents this
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year. Unless adults stop treating young people like children, future adults will become
even more immature. They still need parents` and other adults` advice to make important
decisions but I cannot agree with the statement: parents or other adult relatives should
make important decisions for their older teenage children. I would say that it is no more
than spoiling children.

Essay 351 Topic 61

First of all, it is not easy to define if people at the age of 15 to 18 are adults or children
because they are physically grown up and intelligent enough to carry out general work
like adults do in a company, while a lot of them are under their parents` control. I believe
that they should be able to make important decisions by themselves, no matter how hard

for them. Needless to say, recognition of age and maturity is not universal sense. There
were some times that 15 to 18 years old were recognized as adults and supposed to think
and act independently. It was usual for women at the age of under 20 to get married in
my grandmother`s generation in Japan. Even the present days, it maybe still a common
thing in some developing countries. Thus, I guess it depends on whether the community
is wealthy enough for 15 to 18 year-old children to be children or not. Women in my
grandmother`s generation needed to get married as soon as possible to have about 10
children in order to get enough labor forces for their family business and have them
taking care of their parents and grandparents. In those days, children must have grown up
with prediction of earlier age they had been supposed to become independent. These
days, women in developed countries do not need to have so many children anymore and
they can go on to higher education, by comparison with early times. It has enabled
mothers to get a job as well as fathers in order to make their family more wealthy and
keep their children beside them longer. As children are not expected to be important labor
forces for their family anymore, it may not really matter if they are mature enough to
make important decisions. Then how do children predict themselves to be independent at
the age of 15 to 18 in such a situation? I strongly believe that this phenomenon has made
today`s adults more immature and immoral. I could not believe that a lot of 20 year-old
Japanese people attended the ceremony for Coming of Age Day with their parents this
year. Unless adults stop treating young people like children, future adults will become
even more immature. They still need parents` and other adults` advice to make important
decisions but I cannot agree with the statement: parents or other adult relatives should
make important decisions for their older teenage children. I would say that it is no more
than spoiling children.

Essay 352 Topic 61 Taking decisions

I believe that a person should most of the time makes his decisions particularly the
important ones by his own because that will accustom him, to depend on himself and
judge things in a reasonable way. The absolution rejection that a person should not take

the important decisions alone is, in my opinion, wrong. This is because every individual
wants to be independent and free. Decisions should be based on the perspectives of the
concerned person and not to what some other people think or believe. While not ignoring
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the importance of consulting and seeking the advice of elder and experienced people who
might come through the same matters before, the final decisions should be always left for
the related person to take since it is his life and his future. Parents, of course, should take
decisions on behalf of their sons and daughters when they are children. But it is
preferable that parents encourage their children particularly in the teenage to take
decisions by their own and be responsible for the outcome or the consequences of their
decisions whether being positive or negative. In adulthood, taking decisions is one of the
main responsibilities of any person whether being a man or woman. Undoubtly, it is okay
to ask other people for advice and guidance in certain matters to benefit from their
experience but the final decision should always be left for the concerned person.

Essay 353 Topic 62 What do you want most in a friend?

I think what I want most in a friend is some one who is reliable. There is two reasons:
first, I think a reliable person can be trusted, then, I think whenever I have trouble, I can
rely on him, he will be sure to help me a lot.

First of all, as a friend of mine, he must be reliable, so that I can trust him. I think friends
are the ones who share secrets with me. I must make sure that he is reliable, then I can
tell my even the deepest secret in my heart, may be the skeleton in the cupboard. Well, I
am just kidding, but I do think that being reliable is the most important factor of a friend.
Imagine that once you told your secrets to your friend, and you found in the following
day that everybody in the school was talking about your secret----not a secret any more---
how would you feel? It`s such a horrible thing, is not it? Besides your huge anger, the
only thing you could do is to regret that you didn`t choose a reliable friend. Now you can

see how important choosing a reliable friend is.

Secondly, a reliable friend is always ready to help you whenever you are in trouble.
There is an old saying that  friend in need is a friend indeed?which is very meaningful.
That is what a reliable friend does. You can always rely on him. We can say that a
reliable friend is a true friend. One is lucky if he has even one reliable friend in his life.
Not too many words are needed for a reliable friend to help you, just one sentence hank
you, my friend?is enough and you needn`t think hard in the pay back because that is not
necessary. That`s the reason why I see reliability as the most important factor when I
choose my friends.

A reliable person can be trusted and relied on---that`s the two reasons why I think
reliability is what I want most in a friend.

Essay 354 Topic 62 What do you want most in a friend?

riends are angels who help us stand up on our feet when our wings forget to fly?
riends are the siblings God forgot to give us? riends are a gift from God? these and
other similar quotes come up time and time again to try and find out the true meaning of a
friend.
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First of all, we need to know what exactly is a friend, and why is it that everyone seeks
this relationship? Man is a social animal, and therefore, he cannot stay isolated. At some
point in life everyone needs a person to confide in, somebody to look up to, somebody
who is willing to listen to them, and somebody who stands by them through thick and
thin.

In my opinion, it is wrong to expect too much off a friend, after all they are human being

as well. But there are a few qualities a friend should posses. For me my friends are pretty
much, all I have and so I look up to them for everything. It is important that a friend is
reliable, trust-worthy, caring, dedicated, intelligent and most of all, someone who makes
you feel comfortable, someone who makes you feel good about yourself.

A few people might say that one should choose friends who are intelligent, I don not,
necessarily, agree with them, because friendship is a bond between two people that forms
on its own. Although I agree with the fact, that an intelligent friend is a valuable asset,
but if a friend is not caring and dedicated then there is no use of their intelligence, if you
cant rely on them and cannot trust them then there really is not any bond or relationship.

Therefore, I would rather have friends who care about me and who stand by me in all
sorts of situations than someone who is intelligent and good looking. After all friends are
angels.

Essay 355 Topic 62 What do you want most in a friend?

Friends are very important in everyone`s life. But there are different types of friends:
some of them are very intelligent, some have a good sense of humor and some are
reliable. What I want most is the friend who has a good sense of humor.

Humor is a very important character of a person, because a person who is humorous can
always bring you happiness. I have a friend, who is not very intelligent and reliable, but
he is one of my best friends, just because he has a good sense of humor. Whenever you
call him, talk with him, he always tells you some funny jokes that make you laughing.
Even though you are in a very bad mood, he can make you laugh and forget the sad
things. A friend with a good sense of humor is very optimistic; they can make your world
full of light.

If a person doesn`t have a sense of humor at all, that`s really bad. No matter how

intelligent he is, no matter how reliable he is, he will never bring you happiness, although
he can help you solve a few problems, his world is without laughter. In my class there is a
very smart guy, but because of his lack of humor, we do not like to play with him,
although it seems that he knows everything.

Friend plays a very significant role in everyone`s life. But humor is the most important
character in a friend, because humorous friends make you happy and see the world
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optimistically. They make your world full of hope, and full of laughter.

Essay 356 Topic 62 What do you want most in a friend?

One good friend can have many characteristics that are very important. Intelligent, sense
of humor or reliability is all desired characteristics that somebody whom we call friend
should have. Personally, I prefer friends who are reliable. This is the most important
characteristic that a friend of mine must have. I often need to trust a friend something or
need to ask somebody to do a favor. That is because I prefer people trustable much to
friends with any other characteristic. First, if we have friends, we need some support
from them about our businesses. We need somebody on whom to trust our problems and
experiences. This is one reason because reliability is the most important characteristics of
a friend for me. Some years ago I had some problems with a former girlfriend, and
needed to tell somebody about it. Because I had a very good and trustable friend, on
whom to trust that experience, it was very easy for me to overcome those problems and
finally decide to break my relationship. If I had not have that friend, I would not have
been able to overcome the situation as fast as I did it.

Second, usually when we need help, our friends are the first people whom we go. So, we
need trustable friends on whom to rely to do those things. Some years ago I was to be out
home for several months. My wife had to stay at home alone; it was a hard experience for

our marriage. However, thank to a friend on whom I could truly trust, the experience was
not so difficult. In fact, my friend went by my home everyday and saw how she, my wife,
was going on. I had only been able to give that responsibility to a trustable friend.

In conclusion, a friend who is reliable, is the most valuable treasure that one can have in
life. The possibility of having a friend on whom to trust secrets, confidentialities,
problems, etc. is very necessary and important value. Additionally, we need some reliable
friends to ask for some favor and be sure that they will accomplish what we have asked
for.



Essay 357 Topic 63 Are difficult experiences valuable lessons for the future?

During our life-long time, there are times of frustration as well as times of happiness.
Life is realistic and sometimes cruel, no body can lead a smooth and happy life without
encountering any difficulties and obstacles. So the question is how to look at these
setbacks and bad lucks. In my opinion, if you always uphold such a view that, most
experiences in our lives that seemed difficult at the time will become valuable lessons for
the future, then you will no only successful overcome your current difficulties but also
enable you to hold a healthy attitude toward life. As a matter of fact, these frustration and
unhappy experience exert an import and far-reaching influence upon our later life.

As the foremost reason, the past setbacks and frustration will teach you how to cherish